If God is fair, how can He forgive people like us? The answer is a hill outside Jerusalem — and a grave that was found empty.
"Pastor, you don't know what I did. A fair God can't just say, 'Forget it.'"
Roland is forty-one. He drives a delivery truck in Boston. He is strong, he works hard, and he does not cry easily. But that night, after the Bible study, he stayed in his seat while everyone else went home.
"You talk about forgiveness," he said. "But I know myself. Things I did when I was young. Things I did last year. If God is really fair, somebody has to pay."
The pastor did not argue. He sat down next to him and said, "You're right, Roland. A fair God can't just say 'forget it.' Somebody has to pay."
Roland looked up, surprised. Then, very slowly, he told a story he had never told anyone.
When he was fourteen, in Les Cayes, he was playing football in the market with his friends. He kicked the ball hard — too hard. It flew straight into Madan Jozèf's table. Plates, glasses, cups — everything she had to sell crashed to the ground.
Roland ran. He hid all afternoon. That night he waited for his father, Papa Sérafin, to beat him. But his father only looked at him for a long time and said, "Next time, look where you're kicking." That was all.
Twenty years later, at his father's funeral, an old woman took Roland's hand. It was Madan Jozèf. "Your father paid for every plate," she whispered. "He worked two months of Saturdays to pay me. And he told me, 'Don't tell the boy. I don't want him to carry it.'"
Roland's voice broke. "I never even knew."
Hold on to that story. Because what happened in that market in Les Cayes is a small picture of the biggest thing that has ever happened in the universe.
Many people think forgiveness is easy for God. He is big, He is kind — why not just wipe everything away?
But think about it. If a judge let every thief and every abuser go free and said, "Forget it," would you call him kind? No. You would call him unfair. In our last study we saw that God is a God of justice — "Shall not the Judge of all the earth do right?"
And the Bible is honest about us:
All. Not only the "bad people." Roland. You. Me. And sin is not a small thing. It breaks things — hearts, families, trust, lives. Like plates on a market floor, it cannot just be put back on the table. The Bible says where it leads:
So here is the problem: God is fair, and God loves us. How can He be both? Somebody has to pay for the plates.
About seven hundred years before Jesus was born, the prophet Isaiah saw Someone who would carry what was not His:
Read it slowly. Our transgressions. Our iniquities. Our peace. And it all falls on Him.
That is exactly what happened at the cross. Jesus lived a perfect life — the life we could not live. He never sinned once. And then He took our place:
Do you see the exchange? He takes our sin. We receive His goodness. It is like Papa Sérafin taking the debt of the broken plates — and the boy walking home free.
Peter, who ran away the night Jesus was arrested, later wrote it this way: "Who his own self bare our sins in his own body on the tree" (1 Peter 2:24).
Some people imagine an angry Father in heaven and a kind Son who had to calm Him down. That is not what the Bible says. Look at the most famous verse in the world:
The cross was not the Father's anger against the Son. It was the Father and the Son — together, with the Holy Spirit — paying the price of love. And notice when He did it:
Not after we cleaned up. Not after we promised to do better. While we were yet sinners. Like a father paying for plates his son broke — before the son even knew to say sorry.
And no one forced Jesus. He said, "No man taketh it from me, but I lay it down of myself" (John 10:18). He chose the cross. For you.
Now we can answer Roland's question. Paul explains why God put Jesus forward on the cross:
Just — because sin was not ignored. Its full cost was paid. Justifier — because the One who paid it offers that payment to anyone who believes. God did not lower the price. He paid it Himself.
Even while the nails were going in, Jesus prayed for the men holding the hammers: "Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do" (Luke 23:34). If He could forgive them, He can forgive Roland. He can forgive you.
And just before He died, He spoke three words in English — only one word in the Greek of the Gospel. A word that means completed, done, nothing left:
Not "almost finished." Not "you finish the rest." Finished.
If the story ended on Friday, it would be the saddest story ever told. A good man, dead on a cross. A heavy stone. Soldiers at the door.
But early on the first day of the week, some women came to the tomb with spices, crying. And an angel was waiting for them:
Come, see. The resurrection is not a nice idea or a symbol. It is something people saw. Paul calls it the most important message of all:
Why does it matter so much? Because the empty tomb is God's receipt. It is His public announcement: the payment was accepted. Sin and death have lost.
Years later, the apostle John saw the risen Jesus in a vision. Jesus said to him:
The keys of the grave — in the hand of the One who loves you. That changes how we look at every cemetery. ("Hell" in this verse translates the Greek word hades — the grave, the place of the dead.)
"Firstfruits" means the first part of the harvest — the promise that the rest is coming. Those who die trusting in Jesus are sleeping, waiting for His voice (our study "What Really Happens When We Die?" explains this). Jesus said, "I am the resurrection, and the life: he that believeth in me, though he were dead, yet shall he live" (John 11:25).
The cross says: your sin is paid for. The empty tomb says: death does not have the last word. Together they say: God is fair, God is love, and God wins.
The Seventh-day Adventist Church sums up this Bible teaching like this: in Christ's life of perfect obedience, His suffering, death and resurrection, God provided the only means of atonement for human sin, so that those who accept it by faith may have eternal life; the cross both condemns our sin and provides our forgiveness, and Christ's bodily resurrection proclaims God's victory over evil and assures final victory over sin and death to all who accept Him (Fundamental Belief #9, "The Life, Death, and Resurrection of Christ").
A gift that is paid for still has to be received. You do not earn it. You cannot add to it. You simply say yes. Paul did:
Loved me. Gave himself for me. Put your own name there. Tell Him the truth about what you have done. Thank Him for paying it. And let Him give you a new life — not so that He will love you, but because He already does. (Our study "Saved by Grace" goes deeper.)
That night the pastor opened his Bible to 2 Corinthians 5:21 and handed it to Roland. "Read it out loud," he said. "But where it says 'us,' say your own name."
Roland read: "He hath made him to be sin for Roland, who knew no sin; that Roland might be made the righteousness of God in him."
He stopped. For a long time, nobody spoke.
"It's the plates," he finally said. "My father paid, and I never knew. And Jesus paid — and I've been trying to pay it myself all these years."
They prayed together. Roland did not feel like a different man right away. But he went home lighter than he had felt in twenty years.
The next spring he flew to Les Cayes. He stood at his father's grave with flowers in his hand. And for the first time, he was not only sad.
"Papa, you're sleeping," he said quietly in Kreyòl. "But Jesus' tomb is empty. He has the keys. I'll see you in the morning."
Whatever you have broken, Jesus has already paid for it. Whatever you have lost to death, Jesus holds the keys. The cross and the empty tomb are God's way of saying: I am fair, I love you, and I am bringing you home. Will you say yes to Him today?
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The Cross and the Empty Tomb: Why Jesus Died and Rose — pocket version
| Myth | Fact (with Bible) |
|---|---|
| 1. God the Father was angry, and Jesus had to talk Him into loving us. | "God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son" (John 3:16). "God commendeth his love toward us" (Romans 5:8). |
| 2. God could simply ignore sin and say "forget it." | "The wages of sin is death" (Romans 6:23). At the cross God shows He is "just, and the justifier of him which believeth in Jesus" (Romans 3:26). |
| 3. Jesus was a good man trapped by His enemies, a victim with no choice. | "No man taketh it from me, but I lay it down of myself" (John 10:18). |
| 4. My sins are too big for the cross. | "The LORD hath laid on him the iniquity of us all" (Isaiah 53:6). He even prayed for those crucifying Him: "Father, forgive them" (Luke 23:34). |
| 5. Jesus paid part, and I must pay the rest with good works. | "It is finished" (John 19:30). We are "justified freely by his grace" (Romans 3:24). |
| 6. The resurrection is only a symbol or a nice idea. | "He was buried, and... he rose again the third day" (1 Corinthians 15:4). "Come, see the place where the Lord lay" (Matthew 28:6). |
| 7. The cross is only for very religious or very good people. | "Whosoever believeth in him should not perish" (John 3:16). Christ died for us "while we were yet sinners" (Romans 5:8). |
| 8. Death has the last word. | Jesus has "the keys of hell and of death" (Revelation 1:18). "O death, where is thy sting?" (1 Corinthians 15:55). |
| 9. Since Jesus paid for sin, how I live doesn't matter. | He bore our sins "that we, being dead to sins, should live unto righteousness" (1 Peter 2:24); "Christ liveth in me" (Galatians 2:20). |
| 10. Jesus' resurrection has nothing to do with my loved ones who died. | Christ is "the firstfruits of them that slept" (1 Corinthians 15:20); "though he were dead, yet shall he live" (John 11:25). |
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